Last week, I was working on the range at GPC National with one of our Elite Academy players and Dennis Hillman, the Director of Instruction at GPC. The player, who was growing increasingly frustrated by the results of the shots he was hitting, shared with Dennis and I that he was getting upset because he wasn’t hitting the ball perfectly every time. Now, the easy response would have been to say, “no one hits it perfectly every time,” to try and immediately soothe the discomfort of the player, However, Dennis said something different that struck me as profound. He said to the student, “I get it. That feeling that comes from hitting the perfect golf shot is intoxicating. I know, I’ve chased it many times myself.”
Dennis’ response struck me as profound for two reasons: The first reason was his ability to join with the student. As great coaches so often do, Dennis was able to empathize with the student, meeting them where they were at rather than try and fix something. Empathy from a coach is a wonderful way to create a clearing for learning and Dennis is masterful at it. The second reason was Dennis’ use of the word “intoxicating”. As a firm believer in the power of words, I looked up its definition. Although we often associate the word “intoxicating” with the euphoric effects of alcohol, or some other drug or ethereal experience, the original meaning of the word actually means “to poison”. Unbeknownst to the student, it was this meaning of the word that Dennis intended with his comment.
Remember, the object of the game of golf is to get the ball in the hole in as few strokes as possible. It doesn’t say it needs to be pretty. As Ben Hogan famously said, “This is a game of misses. The guy who misses the best is going to win.”
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